On the actual date of our golden wedding anniversary, in mid-May, we asked a neighbor
to take our photo in the backyard, before we dined out at P. F. Chang's and then did a bit of hiking.
Our children and grandchildren had long been planning a special celebration for us during early June.
We were told what time to be ready, that dinner would be served; and we were instructed
not to ask any questions! (All of these photos were taken by our family and friends.)
We did our best to honor their request, and at the appointed time last weekend, friends picked us up
and drove us to a nearby city to a beautiful facility that we didn't even know existed!
During the afternoon, before we arrived, our family decorated the tables,
displayed my lace wedding dress, and got everything ready.
They set up a very pretty corner for photos.
~ cake and cupcakes ~
The cake featured wrens (my favorite bird) and ferns, which I love.
The tables and centerpieces were absolutely lovely!
Golden chargers waited to be topped by our dinner plates. They knew I would really like
the gold-toned napkins with goldfinches ~ and that cashews and dark chocolate are favorites of ours.
Our daughters-in-law brought their pretty silverware from home ~ gorgeous place settings!
Each centerpiece consisted of three antique books topped with a candle and a nest with eggs.
The books were resting on pages from hymnals, with ferns tucked in here and there.
I collect antique books ~ and Thornton Burgess is my favorite children's author.
That particular stack of books was on our table. Every detail was meaningful to us.
~ our grandsons ~
Burke, Brandon, Kurt, Jordan (in front)
The children took several family pictures before we arrived.
~ granddaughters ~
Madelyn, Bronté, Andrea, Valerie (in front)
~ Kurt & Madelyn ~
~ Mark & Angela ~
~ Lynn & Lynette ~
~ Ryan & Cheryl ~
~ Mark giving the grandchildren last-minute instructions ~
At the appointed time, we walked past this display of thousands of little crosses in the lobby.
Things were a bit of a "blur" to us about then ~ ![]()
We walked in to applause from our grandchildren ~ so dear of them!
It is always fun when they rush to give us a hug ~ we never get tired of it ~
We were treated with special flowers.
Family signed the register before other guests arrived.
They asked us to pose for pictures ~ and more pictures. They made us laugh a lot ~
~ with our children ~
~ with our grandchildren ~
~ our family ~
Family is a tremendous blessing from the Lord.
We greeted our guests ~ brothers, sisters, other relatives, a few friends.
We were delighted and surprised these special friends from California could join us;
we had not known they would still be in the area ~ so happy they could be there!
~ one of our favorite parts of the evening ~
All three of our sons gave speeches during the evening. They made us laugh and they also
made our eyes leak a little ~ we were humbled by their expressed love and heartfelt appreciation.
Mark spoke of so many things they had learned from us when they were young ~ be encouraged, parents ~
many valuable life lessons you teach your children actually stick with them ~ and are passed on!
~ ~ ~ ~ ~
Ryan then told of how we met, about our dating years, our wedding day and honeymoon to Mammoth Cave,
My Old Kentucky Home and Lincoln's boyhood home. He talked about their dad's first cars,
our jobs through the years, our family trips and more of their childhood memories.
~ Bronté and Andrea waiting to serve the meal ~
Before dinner, we all sang a verse of "Blessed Be the Tie that Binds" ~ a song that was sung at our wedding,
in my parents' wedding and also in each of our children's weddings ~ very precious to us.
The best man from our wedding party offered grace for the meal.
Our grandchildren did all the serving of the catered meal. The first course
included rolls and a delicious spinach salad with fruit, pecans and feta cheese.
Coffee, tea, lemonade and water were served by our granddaughters throughout the evening.
Cheerful birdsong was played through the sound system during our meal ~ almost like we were out in nature.
I loved it!
Many of the best bird and nature photos that I have taken through the years,
plus pictures of us in our younger years ~ baby pics, dating, graduation, wedding
and old family photos ~ all were playing in a slideshow on the wall all evening.
The children thought of everything, it seemed like.
Grandchildren then served the main course ~ stuffed chicken breasts,
redskin potatoes, corn and asparagus (my favorite vegetable).
Our dinner plates and napkins were removed, and our youngest grandsons brought us fresh napkins.
As Brandon laid mine down, he whispered, "Grandma, these napkins were my idea!" ~ so sweet ~
We were offered three choices from a dessert tray ~ chocolate or vanilla cake, or a mocha cupcake.
Each plate included a fruit kabob which held a strawberry, melon, kiwi, pineapple and a blueberry.
Everything was absolutely scrumptious!
~ listening to Lynn's speech ~
During dessert, Lynn introduced each guest and grandchild ~ he related how each has been involved
in our lives, shared special traits and talents of each person, and of course, made us laugh a lot.
We so appreciated every single guest sharing the evening with us ~ their presence perfected the night.
After dessert and Lynn's speech, our children and grandchildren surrounded us
and prayed a special blessing upon us ~ we shed a few more grateful tears ~
We posed for a few more pictures.
~ now and back then ~
My sister, Marg, was my maid of honor ~ Clayton's friend, Maurice, was best man.
In the meantime, some of our grandchildren folded mailers in the lobby ~ part of the facility's outreach.
After we left with friends who were spending the night with us,
it was time for a lot of cleanup and a little horsing around, looks like ~
~ Andrea and our gorgeous daughters-in-love ~ Lynette, Angela and Cheryl ~
The whole evening was amazing, beautiful, unforgettable ~ until we lose our memories, that is! ![]()
Our family did an extraordinary job planning it all and surprising us with such a lovely event.
We cannot even come up with adequate words to thank them or to tell them how much we appreciate their thoughtfulness.
God was glorified throughout the evening and we praise Him for His grace and mercy and many blessings.
I could hardly sleep afterwards ~ I just wanted to smile all night with the wonderful memories.
It seems impossible that fifty years have passed since our wedding day ~ time has moved so swiftly.
May God continue to guide and guard us all through our remaining years ~ for without Him, we can do nothing.
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One of our sons quoted this verse in his speech that night:
"... a threefold cord is not quickly broken."
Ecclesiastes 4:12
tGbtG













































































































































































































































































































































































